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Does A*F*F do enough about bullying?
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Does A*F*F do enough about bullying? So I have written a few times about being contacted by irate men because I am on this "hookup" site...but not looking do that right now, Well a member has decided to take that to a whole new level!! He thinks because I didn't answer his first email - he'll get WORSE than nasty! He gave me all kinds of abuse about my looks...my weight...my boobs. And a whole lot more! He actually thinks because I don't want him, no one wants me ...and I should just commit suicide by either swallowing pills or jumping off a ledge!! What if he says that to a person on here....that takes that shit to heart? I am just extremely PISSED!!! I filed 2 abuse reports because he continued (before I blocked him) to send emails....and honestly..I don't take that shit lying down (no pun intended) Also just got done a with them ...they say it will be investigated! Honestly if his profile is still on here... thinking what other avenues may be open to report this further! HE ENCOURAGED TO COMMIT SUICIDE!! Do something A*F*F or you condone it! Should they kick me off for this.....well I guess we know the answer! This site is a mess... words keep disappearing from this post!! UPDATE>>>>>EITHER THE I WROTE ABOUT HERE QUIT A*F*F OR THEY MAY HAVE KICKED HIM OFF....HIS PROFILE HAS BEEN DEACTIVATED! Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL  |
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Can't be tolerated!! Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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i think you done the right thing and am sorry you had to go through that .
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It has been my experience whenever I complained about underage, or spam, or fake profile or money seeker, they have done nothing. I contacted them 4 times about an underage girl. She claimed to be 22 but when I met her, it was obvious she didn't even have a drivers license. But they wouldn't remove her profile(s). That's another bug a boo...multiple profiles by one individual. I have one in my town who has 3 profiles. If you are using points to contact individuals, it is nothing short of being a point scam to have multiple profiles. All have the same name but one number difference. SMH. No, the admin here doesn't do anything.
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The people that run this site don’t do anything that might take money out of their pockets, fakes, scammers, bullying, etc not realizing that they will only keep losing paying members because of it.
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Send snail mail complaints to corporate office, their addresses are at the bottom of every page. Seems the only time customer service will actually do something is when I add cc: corporate via snail mail to the end of my fake or scammer complaints after multiple complaints re the same profile.
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i think you done the right thing and am sorry you had to go through that . It disturbs me because it goes beyond the norm....he is encouraging people to commit suicide! A young boy actually did that with encouragement from his "girlfriend"! Now granted...we are adults here, but it does NOT make it any better! Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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It has been my experience whenever I complained about underage, or spam, or fake profile or money seeker, they have done nothing. I contacted them 4 times about an underage girl. She claimed to be 22 but when I met her, it was obvious she didn't even have a drivers license. But they wouldn't remove her profile(s). That's another bug a boo...multiple profiles by one individual. I have one in my town who has 3 profiles. If you are using points to contact individuals, it is nothing short of being a point scam to have multiple profiles. All have the same name but one number difference. SMH. No, the admin here doesn't do anything. I told the agent I was chatting with that since what he said...in my opinion was WAY out of bounds...that his profile should be deleted....and I would sure notice that! Now I realize that I am not the master of A*F*F......but to encourage someone to commit suicide.....and let them stay? $$$$$$$$$$$....what it's all about! Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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If you still have the emails and chat, perhaps print them out and take them to your local police department and maybe contact the FCC. These days there is zero tolerance for bullying. I've been insulted when rejecting a man's advances, but nothing on the level you unfortunately experienced, just the usual insults that I'm fat, good luck finding anyone who would want me, etc., etc. Juvenile stuff that I laugh off and block the member.
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After you have blocked someone go up on your block list and make sure you have every block checked. When you do that they can not read your blogs or even see when you are on line. Also keep on AFFto do something.
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Being this site is open to all on the web as well as advertises as "get laid tonight" and a lot of other such slogans they attract a lot guys expecting that. They are told if they pay the membership fee they will have their choice of women dying to get with them. So they have paid their money and are expecting the women of their choice immediately drive over to their place for sex or for those who haven't cleaned their room be invited to the ladies home. That's the first problem and it is a big one. The second problem is you are now asking the company that has spent time and money attracting this guy to tell him to smarten up or get off the site. They can do a bit of it but they have to let these guys get their jolly's to get their money. You also say you read at least a couple of his before blocking him and reporting him. I think you should do that first go. If you block him that's it no more email for you to read. He can type until his finger bleed. If He should track you down or bother you in other ways then I would report each incident. While A F F does aim advertising directly at these guys they also must realize the Ladies here are their most valuable commodity whether you are looking to meet guys or not. So with that hammer you should get service. There you go That's all and none of it tragic.
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It's been my experience that they only respond to legal action. You can complain, certainly. That will help document that you were abused and reported the abuse. But don't hold your breath waiting for any meaningful response or "customer service." Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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1/21/2021 6:04 pm |
Doesn't matter if they boot someone or not. All you need is another email account' and you can join right back up. Unless they block a persons IP there really isn't much that can be done. Even then you could get by it with a VPN. Blocking this person is the best thing you could've done. If they would have gotten booted and believed it was you and they just joined back up, well you could imagine the messages you would get. This cancel culture BS only enflames. Even though you may not like it, this person does have the right to speak their mind unless its breaking laws and if you don't like it, well block just like you did.
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Jeez girl, you've been here over 5 years, you should already know how to block those assholes after the first email and block them all the way.
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You can try contact customer service but chances are nothing will be done.
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I copied and pasted and snail mailed my issues and told them I had hired a lawyer. I kept copies. The profile disappeared and the person got blocked/banned permanetly ( we hope) and I also let the local police know I had been threatened- that is cyber stalking and I let a.f.f. know that aswell (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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PS I am totally with umaykiss it is FCCC regulated and can be reported and acted upon without you being involved in any way (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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Hello! I don't understand how some people can do that. We are all here to have a good time and to find someone to have fun with. Assholes need to be gone!!!!! Butch 
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Thanks for the support! It doesn't seem to get anywhere when you do report these people...at least not on A*F*F. His profile is still on here...although I left a few warnings under his picture and they appear to still be there! Money is everything to these sites and he is a gold member! I may not be after this! Why pay for a site that won't protect me from a bully! Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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The people that run this site don’t do anything that might take money out of their pockets, fakes, scammers, bullying, etc not realizing that they will only keep losing paying members because of it. He encouraged another human being to commit suicide, simply because he was shot down!! That's sick...... Thanks for stopping by! Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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Jeez girl, you've been here over 5 years, you should already know how to block those assholes after the first email and block them all the way. Thanks for stopping by! Stay safe... Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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I hate those kind of vicious emails. And even though I’m a guy, I get nasty emails from guys as well. I don’t recall a woman ever abusing me in an email which goes to show you it’s all or mostly males. Funny women are incredibly sexy!
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4/13/2021 10:39 am |
Hopefully Dinner Contacts will do something, it sounds like the guy has real issues and may have those same issues in real life. He can't reach you at this time because he can't find you, meeting him under any circumstances would be dangerous and I hope he doesn't meet ANYBODY on ANY site! I liked what I saw on your site, certainly nice pictures, but since I'm 3,000 miles away I'm not expecting to meet, but can hope you will find one or more men who are fun and respect you! (Just for a bit of background, I'm currently seeing a hot woman when we can, but she is involved with quite a few others -- and tells me -- which terns up both on. Different strokes...) Have a great day!
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10/14/2021 11:43 am |
This site is here to use as you wish. No one is granted favors because they want them. I am not here to be a casual hookup but if others are good for them. You should have reported him. Good for you. BTW ... all your parts look just fine to me.
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