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The Lost Art of Flirting
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The Lost Art of Flirting Why come Dinner Contacts if you're not looking for a random hook-up? I get asked this question constantly. It doesn't matter how much substance I put in my profile, how many ways I try explain what I'm looking for or how many times I repeat myself; the never-ending stream of "Wana fuk" messages just keep rolling in. What happened flirting and chasing the person you're interested in? I realize this is an adult sex site and that alone should cut down on some of the more boring aspects of "dating", but that does't mean tact and decorum can't be used. Honestly, if anything, I think they're even more important, given the nature of this site. The fact of the matter is, everyone is looking for and interested in finding sex in some way, shape, size or form. Because of this, people literally have their pick of dozens, if not hundreds of partners. It's crucial be able stand out in the crowd, so rather than assuming that because you're both on a sex site it automatically means you're gonna get laid, highlight some of your critical thinking skills and turn on her brain before thinking your mere presence in her inbox is gonna make her panties wet. This is where flirting comes in. "Show me your tits", is not flirting. "Wat r u doing", is not flirting. "Yer hot. Wanna fuck?", is not flirting. And news flash, none of that is attractive, enticing, or flattering, either. I may be a girl looking for sex, but that doesn't mean I'm just gonna lay down and spread my legs for any dick that rolls passed. First of all, I'm not hard up to get laid. Secondly, I enjoy conversation with quick witted people. Third, I'm an attention from hell and I thrive on compliments, good conversation, affection, and hearing about how I turn you on. A guy who can flirt well seems to be few and far between, and that fact makes sad. I totally get wanting to cut through the red tape, but at least take the time to review a person's profile and decide if they seem like the "cut straight to it" kind before doing so. I put the time and effort into writing my profile descriptively so as to cut down on the amount of BS thrown at me; sending me a message asking questions that my profile clearly answers or discusses is an immediate turn off. Most women, myself included, get a lot more out of sex when their mind is as engaged as their body. That doesn't mean I want to date you or fall in love with you, or have a future with you...it just means I want you to take the time to figure out what turns me on and makes me wet without asking ridiculously blunt questions. Subtlety does have its place and its uses, and a guy who can flirt strategically is a huge turn . |
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Men who flirt are so cute.
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