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Granny872 67F  
31 posts
8/1/2020 7:23 am
Picture or Profile

I'm one of those people on here who have a medium amount of information in her profile.

I don't come right out and say I just want sex, a NSA relationship or some flavor or relationship in between, probably because I'm not sure what I'm looking for, exactly. I'm pretty sure a majority of people on this site don't read the profiles anyway. I do, but I think I'm in the minority.

Anyway, when YOU decide communicate with a member here, what are YOU looking for/at???
I'm a woman - I read profiles
I'm a woman - I just check out the pictures
I'm a man - I read profiles
I'm a man - I just check out the pictures
I'm other - I read profiles
I'm other - I just check out the pictures
Other and I need to explain myself with a comment

s2ndegree 61M  
9733 posts
8/2/2020 8:21 pm

It's important to read profiles one can garner so much information from them.
Preferences sure but more importantly it's the tone in which they're written that tells the whole story.Any contradictions are even better.
The single ones are almost always of a married couple or women with boyfriends.
Sadly nothing has changed.

Using more than all the road!

Redfingermr 27M
7 posts
8/2/2020 2:05 pm

I'm a man I personally view pictures first and if they seem to cat my interest all read their profile.

3200Ram 39M
194 posts
8/2/2020 11:13 am

mostly here fake profile... lot of men hide in female profile and couple profile..

Granny872 replies on 8/2/2020 1:09 pm:
I guess I understand why a man would hide behind a couple identity, because he's a coward, or just twisted.

Hiding as a woman? A closeted gay, or again, just twisted?

orgmaker2020 52M  
51 posts
8/2/2020 6:20 am

Some folks want to give their entire life story, plus a sexual manifesto, and a complete buzzkill rulebook in their profiles. If a profile requires a scroll down to complete, I am probably not reading the whole thing.

old_stick 58M
37 posts
8/2/2020 12:22 am

I am not a payed up member so reading profiles isn't easy. I always read the limited text that is available to me and if someone really interests me I pay to become a fan and se their profile that way.

hard12eat 52M  
17 posts
8/1/2020 7:03 pm

love the tease

Sexczy69 65M
3120 posts
8/1/2020 6:56 pm

Pictures are great to look at and check out but I like to read and see what one has to say!!!

LadiesR2B1rst 57M  
521 posts
8/1/2020 6:41 pm

I tend to look at photos before I decide whether to read their profiles. I really don't need to see nude pictures to find them attractive enough to read about them .

SassyAshy84 36F  
5 posts
8/1/2020 6:07 pm

my tastes and wants change, i've got my profile to the point that for the most part, i'm not swamped with men constantly asking me to fuck. i like chat rooms, reading blogs and stories, watching cams, dirty talk, regular talk. it just depends on the day. so trying to fit all that into a profile, means a really long one, and i hate reading those. you can put anything into a profile, and there will be someone interested.

gypsygirl0791 50F  
21 posts
8/1/2020 5:13 pm

I look at photos to see how old they are. If they are old, I don't even bother to read the profile or to respond to them.

If the profile isn't filled out, again, no response. I've taken the time to put a current photo and a completed profile up here. If I don't see the same, then I don't see the point. It doesn't have to be a novel, but effort needs to be made. And if marital status is skipped, I'm not interested.

positively4you 70F  
3947 posts
8/1/2020 3:20 pm

    Quoting randi5619:
    Chuckles-your profile pic is obviously NOT you. No way that's a picture of a 67 yo woman. Just another fake on a site that's drowning in them.
Your torso pic does not look like a 64 yo man either. So, you are in good shape just as she looks younger. It happens. Not all are dishonest here.

idblueswoman 61F  
733 posts
8/1/2020 2:36 pm

The only time I read profies is when someone contacts me. Otherwise, I don't even search them. Namely because a majority of them have penis pics as their profile picture and I am not interested in seeing that first over a face. There are those ones who have mutliple dick pics and well who cares. The other is most say they are looking for fun and like minded people but never fucking elaborate. So nothing interesting. to see..

classicalrebel4 64M  
1463 posts
8/1/2020 1:10 pm

First I go to the compatibility chart to see if it is worth reading the profile.

Please don't let me be misunderstood.

lonlyforlove2 77M
14642 posts
8/1/2020 12:11 pm

    Quoting randi5619:
    Chuckles-your profile pic is obviously NOT you. No way that's a picture of a 67 yo woman. Just another fake on a site that's drowning in them.
It is obvious that you are new here, Yes there are fakes, but just to open one's mouth and put your foot into it right in front of everyone is really not a good way to start any thing.. One must investigate a bit more than it was apparent you did.
You will learn after you run off some very good looking ladies and find yourself alone.. with that said, do have a good day and be safe...

Be sure to look in at lonlyforlove2 . It may make you smile

EnigmaInitiative 52F  
2879 posts
8/1/2020 10:06 am

I read profiles when I'm looking to meet someone, and I suspect more people read profiles than one believes.

In my opinion, there's a certain amount of confirmation bias that comes with deciding people who respond to your profile didn't read, we're often forgetting about the people who did read and decided they weren't into you.

Granny872 replies on 8/1/2020 10:42 am:
Good point ...

Also, some people have their 'invisible' shield turned on, so I'm not sure it would show if they did indeed read our profile or not.

Yours_4A_knight 55M
1358 posts
8/1/2020 9:53 am

I detect a flaw in your polling methodology, in that people who don't read profiles probably don't pay much attention to blog polls either

You Know just saying

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.

Granny872 replies on 8/1/2020 10:43 am:
True enough, although the poll isn't meant to be a true representation of the people on this site.

It's just a fun thing ...

mc_justmc 60M
6272 posts
8/1/2020 9:44 am

I read profiles, a pretty face doesn't mean shit to me anymore.

Granny872 replies on 8/1/2020 10:45 am:
Gotcha ... an attractive man's pic doesn't mean much either.... it's just fun to look at.

pocogato12 68F  
33691 posts
8/1/2020 9:12 am

I dont even pay any attention if I look at a profile and it is not filled out. And I send a reply that says so if they have messaged me. The "ask me what you want to know" does not cut it at all

(Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group

Granny872 replies on 8/1/2020 10:46 am:
Pretty much agree with you about empty profiles.

They're just trolling or being clandestine because of their marital status, IMO.

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profcoquin27bis 55M
3187 posts
8/1/2020 8:27 am

standard member can't read profile !!

Granny872 replies on 8/1/2020 8:46 am:
Legit reason for not reading profiles.

shadowtoo69 65M  
950 posts
8/1/2020 8:17 am

I selected read profiles but I seldom meet anyone here. A photo is like the cover of a book it draws you in but you have to read it to know if you will like.

lust4life59 61F  
450 posts
8/1/2020 8:13 am

or the short one, if their height is not listed.

meetmeonthetrail 63M
72 posts
8/1/2020 8:12 am

I read the profile and look at the pics both..That meme is hilarious

Granny872 replies on 8/1/2020 8:43 am:


randi5619 64M  
29 posts
8/1/2020 8:10 am

Chuckles-your profile pic is obviously NOT you. No way that's a picture of a 67 yo woman. Just another fake on a site that's drowning in them.

Granny872 replies on 8/1/2020 8:42 am:
Sorry you think so. That pic (of me) was taken in spring of 2020. And yes, I'm 67 (about to turn 68 in 9 days ).

Granny872 67F  
2394 posts
8/1/2020 7:31 am


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