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LocalMilkMan2020 31M
14 posts
11/22/2020 1:22 am

But mostly the people on here are fake or just confused

Sex_nut1984 36M  
24 posts
11/22/2020 3:16 am

Definitely agree

ScarletSophia_ 55F
46 posts
11/22/2020 3:37 am

I agree. The lack of availability makes initial interactions difficult

SingleItalianGy2 49M  
1062 posts
11/22/2020 3:59 am

I agree.... and realize up until this year most women and couples were given free GOLD MEMBERSHIP if they were active for 2 weeks or reached a certain plateau of CAM VIEWERS. I've been a member for23 yrs. I remember having to wait for people to exit a room before being let in. I remember a time when no less then 50 CAMS had at least 500 to 1000 viewers each in a single night. I remember when EMAILS, IM and CAM VIEWS didn't cost you a thing.

profcoquin27bis 56M
3701 posts
11/22/2020 4:16 am

I totally agree, there are many more men than women here and unfortunately many of these women are venal or fake.

Brownie202 63F
1996 posts
11/22/2020 5:14 am

So do not agree. You can always make bb a free site. This is a business. They want to make money. Poorly run yes but a business.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.

TicklePlease 53F  
13127 posts
11/22/2020 5:27 am

If the IM and inbox were free for all users, the site would quickly become another Craigs-list casual encounters section for the broke folks and a free advertising space for the professional folks.

bbuckwwheat 62M
5573 posts
11/22/2020 5:40 am

You might consider a private mail blog post so that more conversations might happen. Instructions and an example are found at BiggLala

I am sure, based on what I have read of other women's experiences, that you will received plenty of interest. Block the disrespectful.

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Fayette, Iowa

Leegs2012 48M
61661 posts
11/22/2020 9:37 am

You are very intelligent. Great post!! I agree with ever word!

BiggLala 48F  
29220 posts
11/22/2020 9:56 am

If IM and inbox were free for users, I'm sure there would be a better balance of people here.
-No, it wouldn't level the balance. Both features were "free" several years ago, and the imbalance existed. There will almost always exist a gender imbalance on every sex/dating site, men will always outnumber women.

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MyBaffies 51M
4543 posts
11/22/2020 12:14 pm

As has been mentioned, mail and IM did used to be free for all members.

But since the membership has been steadily declining over the years, they have to rake in some kind of money to pay from it all from a continually diminishing public.

So out went the free communication to try and encourage the people that are left to upgrade.


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TicklePlease 53F  
13127 posts
11/23/2020 5:21 am

    Quoting  :




you think I paid?

omgomgomg hahahahahahahahahahahhahaha

Lemme guess, you thought you'd sign up here and presto, you'll get free everything because you're young and think you're attractive. Two weeks later, after finding out that nobody is going to pay to contact your skanky ass, you have a tantrum on the blogs.


Damn sis, don't be that dumb.

BiggLala 48F  
29220 posts
11/23/2020 9:22 am

    Quoting  :

Well how much did Dinner Contacts actively try to get involved?
-That's a question for Dinner Contacts, is it not? I recall the tools available to members when I first joined. However, the site has discontinued many of them, especially the "free" tools. Going back to your assertion that the ratio would be more balanced with "free" stuff, I again tell you that isn't true. The m:f ratio has been askew for a long time, long before I joined. Plus, there will always be those that game the system to continue getting "free" stuff. I'm not condoning or condemning the site, but how long do you think a business can sustain itself without profit?

Sounds like they threw you all the keys and you messed it up.
-Threw me all the keys and I messed up? I don't know how what I said sounds that way to you. I've used the tools available to me to meet people during my time here. I've also continue to find ways to work around the limitations. What have you done?

how would you suggest we make a better balance?
-First, I think complaining on the blogs isn't the way. If you want to impact real change, you need to contact the site directly. Offer your objective suggestions on how they can improve the balance and entice women to join/stay. I do agree with one of the ways you mentioned, which is change their marketing and advertising strategies. However, I think we can agree they're not going to do that. Men are their largest draw, and women are the *bait* to draw men in...to pay. But...far too many men complained that women were getting too much "free" stuff that men didn't get. I think those complaints, gaming the system, and the loss of revenue led the site to stop giving women "free" stuff.

I think until you can change the minds of people in general, and how they view sex, the reality isn't likely to change.

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BiggLala 48F  
29220 posts
11/23/2020 9:32 am

Oh, and...just because I was curious, I looked at your top fan list. Particularly, how many bids you've received. According that list you've received 14,923 in fan points. At 17 points per chat, that's approximately 877 exchanges. Just a few days ago, you posted that you missed over 280 IM because you're not gold.

Surely, you've not missed any more IMs due to the amount of points you've received. Right? Plus, you require that men over 35 send you a minimum of 500 points to chat with you. Surely, that you've received more than enough points to chat. Because...it's about being able to chat for you, and nothing else. Right?

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Northern_Ink2 31M
10 posts
11/27/2020 4:56 am

Totally agree, but I guess at least there's still the option to earn points whereas most sites don't offer that even. But yeah, even just with ad revenues messaging should be free!

iraduu 40M
3156 posts
11/27/2020 6:05 am

AS M ULHERES USAM MUITO BUSSMODE E ACHO QUE O im poderia ser mais barado e ter um gratis por mes

bumassandme 48M
17 posts
11/27/2020 10:04 am

you are an amazing woman and you are so right

1Sexygoodguy11 55M  
1886 posts
11/27/2020 6:25 pm

IM should be free to female members and couples who are looking for females.

Stay Sexy My Friend.

CamusExtranjero 49M
58 posts
11/28/2020 5:16 am

I agree

wifedosentplay 60M
25 posts
11/28/2020 9:20 am

I agree it should be free, but also to weed out all the scammers

sickofjacking 38M
25 posts
11/30/2020 6:21 am

i agree.......they make it hard to interact on here.........hard to get points

SECRETcravings20 38M
15 posts
12/4/2020 6:14 am

I 100% agree

Justforfun34112 39M
7 posts
12/4/2020 6:15 am

Well that escalated quickly lol

mengchian 43M
1 post
12/6/2020 10:59 pm

the site concept no money no honey..haha

Eros15937 42M
10 posts
12/7/2020 9:10 am


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