After my last relationship, I decided to not date and explore new avenues. I am real, here to actually meet, and have fun. I am just your average next door type guy 40, 62, 220lbs. Have my own place, no , snipped, tested and clean, dont use drugs, not an alcoholic, and never been arrested. I believe in being respectful upfront, and unleashing my true Scorpio desire later. Mixed with the intensity of Scorpio is my cancer moon, a highly empathetic sensitive side. I know the fine line between too much and too little. I have been described as a sensual dominant, although tantric is more my style. I love unlocking a womans inhibitions to bring out her true desires, bringing her to places she didnt know existed. At least thats what I strive for. Because giving pleasure gives me pleasure. A woman always comes first if she is giving me the sanctity of her body, she should be cherished for it. I am open to many things, at least discussing them, and love erotic talk. Stimulating my mind is the key, and I believe in reciprocity. I am not looking for anything more than meaningful casual. Substance but not falling in love. I know the difference between fiery passion and romantic love.