I dislike the bar scene, and I am at a loss trying to find some sex partners. As exciting as it might be do it out in some wooded area, I get freaked out thinking the Parks Dept. police are going to pounce. I prefer a bed. I don't mind other people watching, or participating. Safe sex practice is important to me. I try to exercise regularly in an attempt to keep my self trim.(But I'm not muscular.) At 5"8' I weigh between 150and 155 lbs.

My Ideal Person I'm just an average guy looking for a partner who likes to give as well as receive pleasure. However, if a guy wants to be just passive, and not reciprocate, I can handle that too, as long as I am not treated as just a sperm sponge. I do need some response for it to be exciting for me. I am attracted to guys who are in reasonably good shape,especially those in their 30's and 40's and 50's, who are neat and clean about their bodies, as I am. Hopefully that body is height and weight proportional; overweights don't really turn me on. I love to caress a person with my hands and my mouth. S&M is not really for me, but a little manly sex play can be exciting. I recently got a web camera, and I would like to start exploring its uses.