If you are not into BDSM that is not a deal breaker. Active in the BDSM community and looking for play partners and a sub. I will keep it as honest and transparent as possible so we are all on the same page. I am a 42 year old Cuban male, post grad educated, with a very busy professional life. I see many profiles where there seems to be confusion and the details are more for a Christian mingle or match.com sort of service. A relationship or anything like it is not something I am searching for at the moment. As a member of the BDSM scene in Chicago I am a Dom who attends events and would love to enjoy the company of someone that is knowledgeable and preferably a submissive or switch. Not being into the BDSM scene will not make or break my interest. At the end of the day I will always be a top, meaning a DOM. So if we are not at a dungeon but instead in your living room, I will still be asking you to place your hands behind your back as I fuck your throat. I have been this way since I could remember and I have embraced what I consider an evolutionary change in my desire for sex and relationships. I would enjoy an open relationship in the future if I intend on committing to one. I have very little limits and consider myself a hedonist. I love to fuck in public, parties, groups or just while you are getting up to pee in the middle of the night, I grab you and fuck you before you can even wipe. Pounding pussy is not my thing. Enjoying every inch and drop of you is how I get off. I love clean and well manicured women, but can shift over to hipster chicks as well. I am a stag, I love to share my slut and watch her get used, while she only focuses on me and the men praise me for sharing such a great mouth or pussy. I am the real deal and love to really get as nasty as I can. Being STD free is a must. HIV NEG here and STI. I usually will have one partner or submissive I fuck bareback, but with others always protected. At the moment I am single.

My Ideal Person My ideal woman understands that there is power in the word slut. Her pussy gets wet when she hears it and she doesn’t suck my cock to please me but because she loves to suck cock. The kind of woman that will text me “ feed me your load” in the middle of the day.

Though I am not looking for a LTR I do have boundaries and she has to respect those boundaries and I hers. But being open to attending events and not harboring fears projected by societal norms will be ideal.

My ideal couple is that of a Stag and his wife or cuck and his wife. Either way I enjoy being a bull and mixing batter in her wholes as long as we are all tested. Also, I need to be able to have a beer with the male, connect with both on a social level.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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