As my intro states, I'm a single heterosexual female looking for a hookup with a man. I've been hurt too many times in the past in relationships so no desire to go back onto dating apps and revisit that scene but I do miss sex. I'm wonderful on my own but masturbation has its limitations. Ideally would like to find something that could be ongoing and not just a one night stand but no interest in anything beyond a physical relationship. I enjoy being watched and being told what to do. I've never done anything in the BDSM realm beyond fuzzy handcuffs but I'm open to exploring this more--especially as a sub. Anal is an absolute no go zone for me but other than that I like to think I'm pretty open but admit I've lived a pretty "sheltered" sex life. To summarize myself physically: 5 feet tall, curvy (on the fatter side from what I've been in the past) but not obese, athletic, cup size is a full 34D, long auburn hair. I like being active and workout three or more times per week. My downfall is that I do like to eat so hence being on the heavier side as I've gotten older. I'm a t-shirt and sweats kind of girl. Not into labels, heels, or make up.

My Ideal Person I would like to find an ongoing physical relationship with a man. By no means does my partner need to be a model but I prefer someone in at least okay shape. A little belly or being overweight is okay but beyond that is a turn off. I prefer guys taller than me but I'm a shorty (only five feet tall) so not difficult to find someone taller than me. I like being thrown around so picking me up is a turn on. I like trying different positions so that would require some physicality from both of us.

Being safe is important to me so I would want us both to provide evidence of a recent STD test. I'm on birth control (that I take regularly) and would prefer to use condoms at least in the beginning. If the physical relationship is committed, as time goes on and trust is established, we could discuss going without condoms on occasion if my partner was okay with that also.

As I've said previously, I'm a tiny girl so a very large penis is intimidating. My preferred size is in the 5 to 6 inch realm but if you're patient with me I'm open to trying to go bigger.

I'm financially stable and pay my own bills so I'm not going to be asking anyone for gas money. But I wouldn't mind being a "pillow princess". Looking for someone not opposed to oral sex (ideally someone who enjoys it and would go down on me without me asking) and maybe being spoiled a little bit with things he would want me to wear or toys to use on each other. Not a necessity but on my wish list.