I am a well educated, quite experienced, early 40s man looking for no-strings, very discreet connections. Wicked sense of humor and a quick study. Your looks not as important as allure and enthusiasm...

My Ideal Person I am looking for an enthusiastic, sane, discreet woman for no strings relationship. I respect all boundaries and expect the same. Strong, confident women who are always simmering, who always have something good to talk about...enthusiasm for sex, politics, music, books...again, allure is FAR more important than traditional "looks."

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
John Coltrane, Sonic Youth, Bach...

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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