We are a married couple and I (she) will only meet people at parties or other group socials. Please do not ask to meet me privately as the answer will always be 'No'. We don't have enough free time to set up private meets and have encountered too many time wasters. We are both professional upmarket people who enjoy meeting people, sharing good conversation with other like minded intelligent people(the conversation need not always be intelligent...) Just because we are on the site does not mean we are here to shag anyone that is willing, we are very discerning (read fussy). Sex for us is not just a case of getting our rocks off, there has to be a connection. Even though we are married, at parties we play separately or together, we don't have rules or jealousies in terms of our relationship. Not here to build any kind of relationships except friendship, definitely no strings attached. Our private life remains private, we are here for fun and fantasy.

My Ideal Person She is not into bondage or restraints of any kind, I am too much of a control freak for that... I like clean-cut, usually tall, sometimes younger, sometimes older men. Who can really say...when there's chemistry looks don't really matter although it does play a role. In order to feel completely uninhibited I have to feel comfortable with a person and it is important that I feel that I am something special and not just a random shag. I am not interested in one-offs, I need to build some kind of sexual relationship. I enjoy being pursued and being wanted, I love to flirt and tease and above all I am a very passionate person and looooove kissing. I don't really consider myself bi-curious but with the right woman at the right time, who knows... kissing a woman was a very erotic experience...
Personal Hygiene and safe sex go without saying.

For him as long as there is a connection, body type does not matter, like anyone he does like a pretty, attractive woman but it is not a prerequisite

Please don't ask for nude pics as we don't send them...there are a few in the albumn here and in my blog. Unwrapping a present is half the fun...

See my blog for fantasies and erotic stories.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
The Darkness, Rasmus, Cat Stevens, Edith Piaff, RHCP

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Matthew MConaughey (sp?), it would be in Yoseite national
Park at the base of one of the glaciers with the sound of the
waterfall behind. A huge rug, sunshine filtering through
the trees....

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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